Back on the Search
Jun. 6th, 2008 07:07 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
pinksoniaI am once again in the process of looking for a roommate. I seemingly have horrible luck in roommates, at least with regards to their turnover rate. I feel like this shouldn't really be the case. I'm literally in the apartment eight days a month. How much annoyance can I cause in eight days, spread over two four day blocks.
The first one who left I understood. Her boyfriend proposed and she decided to move in with him. Totally fair, I just wish I had been consulted before she was let out of the lease not after.
The second, much, much worse. I came home from a ten day and she was just gone. Her room empty, all her stuff removed from the kitchen - just gone. And there was no note. Now if I had needed to leave very quickly I think I would have a.) called or b) put a note on the table or kitchen counter or my roommate's bed which explained where I was going and how to contact me. All I got was the keys mailed to me two weeks later in an envelope with out a return address and once again no note. She still owes me $600 and ignores my attempts to contact her.
Anyway, back to the roommate search. It amuses me all the people to reply to ads who clearly have not read the ads. I clearly state no pets, because my landlord does not allow them, yet I continually get replies from people describing how well behaved their pets are. I'd love to live with your sweet, cuddly, house-trained cat but not enough to get evicted over. Also, when I say I need someone to sign a year lease, it is not okay for you to be here for three months, unless of course, you want to continue to pay for the other nine months while you are not living here. I could get into that arrangement. Finally, saying you like to remain single and there for need an open-minded roommate and then asking for my picture does not make me want you living here. In fact, it really creeps me out and makes me worry for the person you do end up living with.
The first one who left I understood. Her boyfriend proposed and she decided to move in with him. Totally fair, I just wish I had been consulted before she was let out of the lease not after.
The second, much, much worse. I came home from a ten day and she was just gone. Her room empty, all her stuff removed from the kitchen - just gone. And there was no note. Now if I had needed to leave very quickly I think I would have a.) called or b) put a note on the table or kitchen counter or my roommate's bed which explained where I was going and how to contact me. All I got was the keys mailed to me two weeks later in an envelope with out a return address and once again no note. She still owes me $600 and ignores my attempts to contact her.
Anyway, back to the roommate search. It amuses me all the people to reply to ads who clearly have not read the ads. I clearly state no pets, because my landlord does not allow them, yet I continually get replies from people describing how well behaved their pets are. I'd love to live with your sweet, cuddly, house-trained cat but not enough to get evicted over. Also, when I say I need someone to sign a year lease, it is not okay for you to be here for three months, unless of course, you want to continue to pay for the other nine months while you are not living here. I could get into that arrangement. Finally, saying you like to remain single and there for need an open-minded roommate and then asking for my picture does not make me want you living here. In fact, it really creeps me out and makes me worry for the person you do end up living with.
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Date: 2008-06-07 02:49 am (UTC)I wish you luck. I still live at home but when I do get out of here I am sure I need to live alone. Unless there is a 50 something gay guy looking for a roommate, cuz I dont think I could get along with anyone else. I've had roommates before, when I had apartments in college, and even when they were close friends....yeah, it didnt really work to my liking. BUut I'm rooting that you find a good one.
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Date: 2008-06-07 12:37 pm (UTC)Thank you for your well wishes. I have had good roommates in the past, so I'm hoping it's possible for the future. I do have two gay guys looking who I have high hopes for.
It's been really nice having the apartment to my self the last couple of weeks, so I think living alone would be my optimum state too. But the rent is a little too high for that and a really like the apartment and don't want to move to find cheaper rent. It's always a dilemma.
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Date: 2008-06-07 06:35 pm (UTC)no subject
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