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pinksonia1. Assigning songs to time and people in a life is certainly nothing new. I know I have songs that remind me of particular people, be they songs that describe out relationship, songs that describe the person's psyche, or just songs that we listened to together. In the past I've even thought of making mix-tapes of these songs, but I knew that I would be mortified if people found out about some of the connections. So instead I keep the playlists in my head and pull them out as appropriate. Point one: commendation on the sharing.
2. I know that Tom was trying to offend people and that I got off easy. That itself kind of offends me more than anything else would have. My songs were not, generally, meaningful character development or about group interactions - they were just songs I like - like no thought went into them whatsoever. Of course that could be other people having a higher opinion of me than I do of myself (which I have noticed in the past) but I don't think so. On a similar not I felt conspicuously absent from large portions of the endeavor. It's sobering to realize that someone was more important for you than you were for them. But of course, I will persevere.
3. It is amazing how people's perceptions of the same event vary wildly. There were many songs that T&T obviously thought described a character (particularly Lauren) when I had a hard time believing that we were talking about the same person. In the same way, there were songs played that it seemed to me were very nice, or owned up to some blame not formerly carried, that didn't seem to leave that impression with other people. Wow, could I be more vague.
Twice in one day with the up dating, go me. There should be one more because I need to share the next day's trip to Philadelphia or Shylie might burst.
2. I know that Tom was trying to offend people and that I got off easy. That itself kind of offends me more than anything else would have. My songs were not, generally, meaningful character development or about group interactions - they were just songs I like - like no thought went into them whatsoever. Of course that could be other people having a higher opinion of me than I do of myself (which I have noticed in the past) but I don't think so. On a similar not I felt conspicuously absent from large portions of the endeavor. It's sobering to realize that someone was more important for you than you were for them. But of course, I will persevere.
3. It is amazing how people's perceptions of the same event vary wildly. There were many songs that T&T obviously thought described a character (particularly Lauren) when I had a hard time believing that we were talking about the same person. In the same way, there were songs played that it seemed to me were very nice, or owned up to some blame not formerly carried, that didn't seem to leave that impression with other people. Wow, could I be more vague.
Twice in one day with the up dating, go me. There should be one more because I need to share the next day's trip to Philadelphia or Shylie might burst.
